You Understand.
Yet It Still Hasn’t Changed.
You’ve already spent time trying to understand this. You’ve reflected, read, and probably even had therapy before. Yet when it matters most, your responses still don’t reflect who you know yourself to be.
This is not traditional therapy.
I work with high-functioning individuals in focused, multi-day intensives designed to change patterns at the level they were formed, so your responses finally align with who you know yourself to be.
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High-Functioning.
Internally Stuck.
This is for individuals who are already capable, self-aware, and functioning at a high level, but whose responses still don’t align when it matters most.
Patterns like:
- Repeating the same reactions in relationships
- Losing control under pressure
- Feeling overwhelmed, shut down, or disconnected
- Knowing what to do, but not being able to do it
This is not long-term, open-ended therapy. This is structured, evidenced-based, focused work delivered over a number of days, designed to create measurable internal change.
Up to date, all our customers have been word of mouth clients through a network of corporates in Singapore, people see peoples results and say, ‘I want what you have, what did you do’, ‘how have you changed so quickly’, to which they often reply ‘I had EMDR at tidylodge with Kellyjo and it changed my life’. This trailblazing approach, outperforms every other coaching and psychotherapy modality I have heard of.
Tidylodge Business Advisor, Advisory Board Member and Global Fintech Expert
Where Change
Actually Happens
Imagine what an intensive experience with tidylodge could do for corporate adults and homemakers, when evidence shows that a population sample with severe PTSD had an 82.9% symptom reduction and 55% totally lost their diagnosis after their intensive experience.
European Journal of Psychotraumatology
Private Intensive
For individuals who understand themselves, yet still don’t respond how they want under pressure. You may think clearly, reflect deeply, and function at a high level, yet in the moments that matter, something else takes over.
This is structured, multi-day work designed to change patterns at the level they were formed, so your system no longer overrides you.
Delivered through Advanced-EMDR and trauma-informed psychotherapy.
Executive Intensive
For individuals operating at a high level who find that, despite their capability, their responses don’t align under pressure.
This focused, multi-day intensive is designed to stabilise internal responses, improve clarity in decision-making, and allow consistent performance without the system overriding you.
Couples Intensive
For couples who find themselves repeating the same patterns, despite wanting something different. This focused, multi-day intensive works at the level those reactions are formed, reducing reactivity, improving communication, and allowing both partners to respond with clarity rather than trigger.
Testimonials
Clients often describe this work as something they didn’t expect, not because it’s unfamiliar, but because the change is immediate and sustained.
