The first of our kind to land on Singapore soil and to offer you this unique experience. Not only is this a limbic spa, but also an accelerated form of coaching and therapy.
Everyday I feel so grateful waking up without feeling any fatigue, and I don't need to sleep for 10 hours to feel better. Now I sleep for 7 hours and I feel recharged, no fatigue at all and of course much more energized and ready for the day.
I have been telling people about EMDR as well. Everyday I wake up I still think of my sessions. It almost feels sacred, all the sessions that I had with you and how powerful the impact was. Everyday I feel so grateful waking up without feeling any fatigue, and I don’t need to sleep for 10 hours to feel better. Now I sleep for 7 hours and I feel recharged, no fatigue at all and of course much more energized and ready for the day. I feel so proud of myself for the courage that I’ve had for taking this step and willing to process all these uncomfortable emotions and feelings that have been buried for so long. All thanks to you for guiding me through this. I hope my story encourages others to process whatever it is that needs to be acknowledged and processed, especially those who aren’t sure of going to therapy. I have been to talk therapy before, but only through EMDR I could finally fully heal and for the first time after years, I feel safe. Thank you for choosing my story.
Her effortless and pioneering use of EMDR can create surprising outcomes that may seem too good to be true.
Kellyjo is simply amazing! She has helped me deal with various issues ranging from overcoming negative habits, resolving frictions at home and improving focus and confidence at work. Her effortless and pioneering use of EMDR can create surprising outcomes that may seem too good to be true. In a short span of time, Kellyjo has made a permanent impact on my life and I am grateful for her assistance.
Leading lawyer and Partner at Major International Law Firm
I am finally beginning to understand and to apply self-love in the most authentic sense
I came to see Kellyjo through a friend’s recommendation, utterly burnt out from my work, not sure what to do, too afraid to move on. Through the incredible work that Kellyjo does as an excellent psychotherapist, I was able to identify the tremendous amount of negativity and internalised criticism I was carrying within me and bearing down on myself. I am finally beginning to understand and to apply self-love in the most authentic sense, thanks to Kellyjo.
Local in Business Development
I honestly am amazed at how much I improved from the beginning till now
I honestly am amazed at how much I improved from the beginning till now… I took a step I was too afraid to take and I am actually very proud of where I am and it’s all thanks to you, you really helped me to put things into perspective. These sessions have taught me to become someone I am actually going to be proud of some day.
If I could turn back in time, I only wished that I found her earlier.
I was introduced to KellyJo by a trusted colleague. I saw how she has transformed, and was curious about the magic behind it. After just 3 sessions, I saw the positive change that was happening to me. I became more aware of my feelings and subconscious negative beliefs, instead of avoiding them, and suffering without knowing where the pain was coming from. She’s not just a therapist but also a life coach! I gained so much and am able to better communicate my feelings and set boundaries, to live a fuller life. If I can turn back in time, I only wished that I found her earlier. Kellyjo always has solutions, and you can always trust her with your darkest secrets without any fear of judgement. Try it and you can feel for yourself!
I found the sessions very helpful in achieving my goals in a short span of time.
Every session with KellyJo using the EMDR progressed me immensely towards my goal set at the beginning of our session. It helped me desensitise the fears and bring clarity within myself and make the decisions. I found the sessions very helpful in achieving my goals in a short span of time. Thank you Kellyjo for all your support!
Expat Global Bank Leader
I truly recommend her to anyone who needs help with issues they are facing.
I was in a bad place when I first came to see Kellyjo. All my life I’ve felt I was nothing, I was defined by the external. Kellyjo has helped me to build myself, to set boundaries without worrying if I was doing something wrong. Through her skills with EMDR, I have healed childhood issues which have affected most of my life. She is an intuitive, knowledgeable, amazing psychotherapist and I truly recommend her to anyone who needs help with issues they are facing.
Local in Business Development
EMDR 2.0 brought out the best in me.
EMDR 2.0 brought out the best in me. I’ve worked with top NLP guru’s and other transformational modalities, prior to finding tidylodge and the intensive approach they offer, I had worked with three other EMDR practitioners and two other coaches, already depleted with the results, based on my expectations, I said last chance. Kellyjo’s version of EMDR not only brought me back to myself, it literally changed my life in such a positive way and in a short span of time, the benefits really did ripple through my career and family, I strongly believe they will stay for generations to come.
CEO Fintech Organisation
Kellyjo is very professional, has an excellent understanding of the therapy method, and has brilliantly navigated the whole process.
After a couple of sessions, I realised how different it feels. Living my daily life has become lighter, without irrational fear and anxiety, while I can still identify actual danger objectively. It is not exaggerating to say EMDR with Kellyjo has changed my life.
Female, Design Lead, Singapore
Use these 3 days to really immerse yourself in self discovery and healing. Close stress cycles that you never knew were open and be ready to feel lighter and bolder at the end of the session.
I highly recommend the weekend intensives if you’re serious about getting the most out of Kelly-Jo’s sessions. You get so much covered over the 3 days – if I were to split it over 5 weeks, personally I’d lose focus and momentum just because life would’ve taken over in between those weeks. Use these 3 days to really immerse yourself in self discovery and healing. Close stress cycles that you never knew were open and be ready to feel lighter and bolder at the end of the session. At least that’s what happened to me
Throughout my journey with KellyJo, the changes were monumental.
Singapore is a land of immigrants. Many of us were, unknowingly, parented through transgenerational trauma. Our grandparents came here with very little, and lived to survive World War 2. These people, challenged by their circumstances, brought our parents into the world. Most of us know they were fed and clothed, but few of us have heard our parents express a knowing of being valued and cherished in their childhood. Times were hard, and our grandparents could not be the emotionally available parents that every child deserves. And that passes on to the next generation – ours – too.
I never thought there was anything abnormal about all the big feelings and triggers that followed me through most of my life. Things were fine until they weren’t, and a friend sent me a link to KellyJo’s PsychologyToday profile, and told me this was the help I needed.
Throughout my journey with KellyJo (individual sessions and the intensive), the changes were monumental, and they were so in a quiet way. It’s things like no longer thinking I was going to die before I reach 30. And suddenly being able to believe that I can plan for my future; nothing bad is going to happen to me. It’s a sudden realisation that I am now so deeply in love with my ordinary life that I no longer want to shop for more. It’s knowing that I can and should trust myself in all things small and big, and taking such good care of myself, that I come to realise I don’t actually need someone else to do that for me.
I never thought I could become a securely attached adult who is free to be loving and be loved. Thank you so much, KellyJo. Your work has not only changed my life, but also that of the people around me, and the future generations that come after. That’s a lot of happy people.